If you don’t have a map, you don’t know where you’re going. There is a lot of wisdom in that statement. There is one exception and that’s when it comes to dating.
Not to say that there is something definitely “wrong” with having a list in mind of what you want and don’t want in a mate. The problem is it could make you so “married” to your list that you could end up being single for longer than you would’ve ever expected.
If somewhere you have jotted down all of the things that you’re looking for in a perfect man, here are some of the reasons why we think your list may be working against you, not for you.